结婚 20 年的夫妇发现妻子与儿子的童子军领袖有染，尽管妻子有操纵的意图，他们仍寻求建议，以便为了孩子继续在一起。 20-year marriage couple discovers wife's affair with their son's Boy Scout leader, seeks advice for staying together for children despite wife's manipulative intentions.

亲爱的安妮：在他们二十年的婚姻生活中，作者在妻子提出离婚后才发现她与儿子的童子军领袖有长期的婚外情。 Dear Annie: In a 20-year marriage, the writer discovered his wife's long-term affair with their son's Boy Scout leader after she requested a divorce. 尽管经过劝告，他们仍然在一起。 Despite counseling, they remain together. 妻子承认，她利用生第三个孩子的可能性来操纵丈夫，让他提供他们无法承受的稳定生活和奢侈品，最终透露她从未打算生更多的孩子。 The wife admitted she used the possibility of having a third child to manipulate her husband into providing stability and luxuries they couldn't afford, ultimately revealing she never intended to have more children. 丈夫寻求建议，为了孩子，是否要维持这段没有爱情的婚姻。 The husband seeks advice on whether to stay in this loveless marriage for the sake of their kids.