与老年男子有关系的作家寻求有关同居和家庭维修的建议;关系专家建议分开生活并设定界限。 Writer in relationship with older man seeks advice on cohabitation and home repairs; relationship expert suggests living separately and setting boundaries.

与70多岁的男人有关系的作家寻求建议。 Writer in a relationship with man in his 70s seeks advice. 由于压力，男人最初要求她搬出去，但后来想要一段忠诚的关系。 Man initially asked her to move out due to stress, but later wanted a committed relationship. 作家希望他搬进来，修理房屋，但对缺乏进展感到沮丧。 Writer wants him to move in, make home repairs, but feels frustrated with lack of progress. 关系专家埃里克（Eric）建议他们继续分开生活，因为男人可能无法处理家庭装修。 Relationship expert, Eric, suggests that they continue living separately as man may not be able to handle home renovations. 作家应该设定界限，并询问他们在关系中需要什么才能感到安全、被重视和被尊重，在要求同居之前考虑不可协商的需求。 Writer should set boundaries and ask for what they need in the relationship to feel secure, valued, and respected, considering non-negotiable needs before demanding cohabitation.