亲爱的艾比建议，结婚 10 年的男子发现妻子有网上恋情。 10-year married man discovers wife's online affairs, Dear Abby advises.

结婚 10 年的男子在 8 年后发现妻子有网上恋情。 10-year married man discovers wife's online affairs after 8 years. 他不知道是应该因为感情上的痛苦而离开，还是因为孩子、经济以及妻子的无家可归的威胁而留下来。 He's torn between leaving due to emotional pain and staying due to children, finances, and wife's threats to homelessness. 亲爱的艾比建议寻求法律顾问，考虑获得孩子的完全监护权，进行性病检测，并且不要为保护自己和孩子而感到内疚。 Dear Abby advises seeking legal counsel to consider full custody of kids, getting an STD test, and not feeling guilty for protecting self and children. 妻子可能正在操纵，所以考虑让她搬出去。 Wife may be manipulating, so consider her moving out.