一位六十岁的离婚男子向专栏作家寻求有关不一致约会的建议；作者说，如果没有感情或联系，就跟随你的直觉，继续前进。 A sixty-year-old divorced man asks a columnist for advice on inconsistent dating; the writer says to follow your gut and move on if there's no affection or connection.
作者是一位 60 多岁的离婚男子，他正在就他与在工作研讨会上认识的一位女性的约会经历寻求建议。 The author, a divorced man in his mid-60s, is seeking advice regarding his dating experience with a woman he met at a work seminar. 女人反复无常的行为让他很困惑。 The woman's inconsistent behavior has left him confused. 咨询专栏作家安妮·莱恩（Annie Lane）建议男人相信自己的第一直觉，如果他觉得他们的联系不牢固并且他没有得到想要的感情，就继续前进，因为他值得一个想要回吻他的人。 Annie Lane, an advice columnist, advises the man to trust his first instinct and move on if he feels their connection is not strong and he is not receiving the desired affection, as he deserves someone who wants to kiss him back.