“加州的义务”寻求建议，借钱给他们疏远的姐姐，她需要资金进行房屋维修；“亲爱的艾比”建议考虑姐姐的负担能力和个人感受。 "Obligated in California" seeks advice on lending money to their estranged sister, who needs funds for home repairs; "Dear Abby" advises considering sister's affordability and personal feelings.

“加州的义务”寻求建议，借钱给他们疏远的姐姐，她的行为曾经很残忍。 "Obligated in California" seeks advice on lending money to their estranged sister, who has a history of cruel behavior. 姐姐失去了丈夫，家里虫害猖獗，需要进行大修。 The sister lost her husband and faces a vermin-infested home in need of major repairs. “亲爱的艾比”建议“有义务”听从自己的直觉，不要让过去的事情压垮自己。 "Dear Abby" advises 'Obligated' to listen to their gut feeling and not let past events weigh them down. 他们建议，捐赠的金额不要超过姐妹能够承受的损失，以免失望。 They recommend giving no more than the sister can afford to lose, to avoid disappointment.