58 岁的祖母是孙子孙女的主要照顾者，她寻求如何减轻内疚感和设定界限的建议。 58-year-old grandmother, primary caregiver to her grandkids, seeks advice on easing guilt and setting boundaries.

58 岁的祖母是她 7 岁和 13 岁孙子孙女的主要照顾者，但她对于探望感到十分愧疚。 58-year-old grandmother, primary caregiver to her 7 and 13-year-old grandkids, struggles with guilt over visits. 她觉得自己的职责太过繁重，包括在住宿期间做饭和打扫卫生，她觉得自己没有时间享受与这些事情相关的时光。 She feels overwhelmed by her duties, which involve cooking and cleaning during her stays, and feels she doesn't get to enjoy time with them. 她认为她的女儿是一个自恋者，不理解她的担忧。 Her daughter, whom she believes is a narcissist, doesn't understand her concerns.