读者在洗衣店发现了有伤风化的内衣;礼仪小姐建议谨慎地回去。 Reader found risqué lingerie in laundry; Miss Manners advised discreet return.

在最近的 Miss Manners 专栏中，一位读者在他们的洗衣房中发现了一件有伤风化的内衣，并寻求有关如何谨慎归还它的建议。 In a recent Miss Manners column, a reader discovered a piece of risqué lingerie in their laundry and sought advice on how to return it discreetly. 这位专栏作家强调了在这种情况下机智和尊重的重要性，建议读者直接联系物品所有者或将物品留在私人空间供他们取回，确保退货得到敏感处理，不会感到尴尬。 The columnist emphasized the importance of tact and respect in such situations, suggesting that the reader contact the owner directly or leave the item in a private space for them to retrieve, ensuring the return is handled sensitively and without embarrassment.